Do not blindly trust experts. The Gurus of our times are prone to making mistakes.
Offering advice that isn't customized to your needs is a dormant fault of self help coaches. You cannot take a step forward based solely on what they have to say.
I have been a motivational speaker and life coach for many years and I am gently warning you about taking my advice like a perfect pill without doing your due diligence and deep research.
The most important thing is whether what we say is exactly what you needed to hear.
The next most important thing is that will our advice help solve your problems or create new ones.
Advice thrown out of the mouths of the masters generally create new problems and increase the plight caused by new issues rather than cure old problems that have been plaguing you.
It's always wise to take good advice in through one year and out the next if it isn't "good" for you.
What sounds good may not actually be good for you and it becomes vital for you to figure out what's right for you and what isn't.
The beat that fills the air might be motivating you to change your life.
Peer pressure causes you to actually mend your ways when in reality no mending was needed.
Our friends and those around us can cause great destruction to our personalities if we blindly follow whatever they do and say.
Never accept the advice of a good friend unless you are doubly sure that it's advice that's totally catered to your specific issue.
Friends mean well but they may not be the best people to turn to for advice about your life.
Asking for help and advice is a really good thing.
Being aware of your problems and things that can improve the state of your life (if corrected) is another thing altogether.
Even following these lines written by me is not the wisest thing to do.
I don't even know you, neither do I care that much about you, what I seek most is my benefit, not yours.
Once you understand this then you will probably let my published posts sink into your system more sensibly.
Experts are there to improve the quality of their own lives.
They aren't genuinely concerned about alleviating the standards in your life unless you truly wish that they intervene in your affairs.
Giving gurus and coaches your full consent to mend your life is the silliest thing to do.
Wake up. Awaken your soul.
Your inner voice is your "only" true teacher, the real expert that God has installed in you when you were in your Mother's womb.
Meditate every single day, spend an hour in silence and solitude, let your soul speak to you.
And listen only to what she says since no one knows you better and no other being wants whats best for you other than your inner God.